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Shamim (Muslimah wants to marry Hindu) says: Apr 25, 2012 at 1:24 am

Salam,
Shamim here i thousand in difficult situation. My boyfriend is a hindu. My parents dont like he talking to me. Actually its high time and they are forcing me to ally a guy in my area, javed. I'thousand crying twenty-four hours and night. I just want to marry Rahul and spend my life with him. Just no one from my family is supporting me for spousal relationship with him, due to his religion, i dont want him to alter. My dad has given me alarm to stop seeing Rahul. Its 1 week that i saw him, i cant think annihilation else now. I m educated, i beloved my parents, only I cant stand up their torture anymore for marriage to javed, i will run away or dice one twenty-four hour period, i dont know. Rahul is earning. His family is nice and he will take intendance of me. What should i do? i have very less time, i dont want to leave him.

Seema Maheshwari replied: April 25, 2012 at 5:56 pm

Shamim. no 1 should inquire yous to leave your parents. On the other hand, if you are an educated adult, no one should be able to forcefulness y'all to ally anyone.
What near the boys parents? Will they help yous and support you?

Admin replied: April 26, 2012 at 11:45 PM

Shamim, You are in a very difficult situation. As you know, in Islam, rules are very strict for girls vs. for boys.

You may be wondering why people (or God?) created all these religions making young people'southward life difficult? Why one God is more than important than the other God? Why humanity is a low priority but what is written in some books thousands of years before is more than important? Why nosotros cannot take the best from 2 religious scriptures and relish the interfaith married life with equality? Why the person you marry to is of less importance than the religion of that person? …..well, these are all theoretical questions and today you lot will take to bargain with practicality.

You may exist hoping that you lot will have your Hindu-Muslim marriage with equality like Salman, Seema and Shah Rukh Khan. However, for that, yous (or your bf) accept to exist financially contained and/or your parents have to accept backbone to go against the Islamic dogma.

You take made a very rational point by maxim, "i don't want him to change (his religion)." Nevertheless, in faith there is less rationality and more belief organization imposed on us. Unfortunately, religious conversion of a Hindu is the only option the Koran?, most Muslims and probably your parents will recommend you (a Muslim girl) to have. It is possible that they may enquire you to tell Rahul to accept Shahadah oaths and convert to Islam, change his Rahul name to an Arabic name, have a circumcision, inquire him not to pray anymore to his Hindu gods simply to Allah but, not visit his Hindu temples any more but only to Mosques, slowly get away from his parents and mingle more than with Muslims, raise children with Islamic teachings just and ultimately he has to become a true Muslim (even Javed may non be!!!) if he wants to ally you. You take to brand a difficult pick: what is fair to practice? or what is skilful for Islam?

As an adult, unless you lot are in some Islamic countries, you take legal rights to marry who ever y'all wish. Exercise not marry to someone unless yous similar him. For Javed, tell him you are not gear up to marry now. Tell your parents that you want to go for a college education. Purchase some time to remember through what is best for you. Get into rational discussion with your parents to convince them and see how it goes. Best wishes.

Shamim says: April 27, 2012 at seven:42 am

Hi,
I dont desire to modify his religion. And i thou going to endeavor to brand my family empathize Rahul improve. The trouble is they simply focus in their religion, fifty-fifty when majority of my dad's business concern comes from hindus, he has several hindu friends etc.


Unfortunately I will have to run away for marrying Rahul, i heard there are legal problem besides, is it true?

Admin says: April 27, 2012 at 8:38 pm

Shamim,
First, you should know yourself by reevaluating your organized religion. Who is the God? Is Allah the only God as described in the Koran? Who are Jesus, Krishna, Mahavir and Buddha……idols? Exercise you believe in the Judgment Day? Do you know that it is sin to marry a non-Muslim, peculiarly an idol-worshiper Hindu? How many of Koranic statements are applicable to Rahul and his family unit? As one ages, ane becomes more religious; do you call up you may ever change like Dee'southward wife? Presently other Muslims will guide y'all on this post for what are right things for you to practice equally a Muslim girl. Read that critically to assist y'all make an "informed" determination.

Instead of "run-abroad," consider these: ane) In general, y'all cannot detect a solution to circuitous marriage issues in a few days. A more than idea out decision will be better for you in a long run, 2) you are educated and intelligent. You should exist able to contend with your parents rationally. Ask them…. are they "true" Muslims? Are they doing their namaz v times a twenty-four hour period and literally following every word mentioned in the Koran? Ask them to preach simply what they follow, 3) your parents love you; listen to their concerns. Give them (and you lot) a chance to realize reality. Information technology may take some fourth dimension, may be months or years. Normally they won't mind considering your request, but they take to save their confront from the Muslim community, 4) become run across your dad's Hindu friends. Don't tell them your electric current situation but mentioned them that some day you lot may demand their aid to talk to your dad. Find others in your Muslim customs like blood brother Rauf, and ask them to talk to your dad, and 5) exercise the run-away option only if your parents are forcing you (that is against the law) to marry to someone confronting your wishes.

Run-away could bring legal problems, so you have to recall of it carefully and take that option but as a concluding resort. Lets hope someone with legal knowledge (we assume y'all are in Republic of india) volition guide you lot here. Yet, a layman could retrieve like this…if you run-away, your dad could written report to police and get Rahul arrested for abducting and holding you against your wishes. However, Rahul'due south lawyer could employ your communication on this web site as a proof that your dad's claim is illegitimate.

Are y'all considering to run-away to immediately get married? If you are thinking of a Hindu union ceremony, information technology may not be a valid marriage because you are a Muslim. If you want a Muslim Nikaah ceremony, Rahul has to convert past Shahadah earlier the Nikaah. Best option for you will exist to marry by the Indian Special Marriage Deed, 1954 (and in addition y'all could take other religious ceremonies, if you wish). Keep us posted for updates.

Shamim Says: May 7, 2012 eight:22 pm

Salam Indian blood brother, I dont agree with you. I believe in allah, and i also believe in existence of other gods too. Just considering i love a guy who is non muslim y'all recall i have no religion? I am sorry to say you are of same thinking as that of my father. Tell me a concrete reason why i should not marry Rahul, have you lot met him? And what you lot mean by this site being anti-muslim? When i saw the example of Zoya, she is Jain-Hindu and loves a muslim male child, you did not told anything? This narrow minded mentality which my father has is what i dont like. I love Rahul, because he will keep me happy and permit me practice my faith, i volition exist working besides. My allah has no problem but you one-half muslim-half narrow minded muslim accept.

Shamim Says: May 17, 2012, 7:31 pm

Howdy Srinivas, I dont think Muslims attack hindus for marrying Muslim girls. Its but those Muslim who feel inferiority complex (like the user Indian, who comments threatens hindus, he does non represent muslims, he is even scared to say his name). I m educated muslim girl and i know about allah and humanity. why deceit muslim girls fall in love with hindu boy (if you quote say its prohibited in islam, information technology WAS prohibited that rule was only valid within a context. i dont need anyone's estimation to explain it), why only girls suffer all the rules, muslim boys have hindu girlfriend. That is banned too in islam but no one (user Indian) talks qurans lessons then, Simply when we muslim girls beloved a human being all the hell breaks loose. I hate people like user Indian who only mis represent islam, he wants anybody convert to islam else y'all are a fool, he is bigoted person. I dont want to get married to a commuter or an electrician etc I beloved Rahul, he loves me and then much he accepts me as a muslim and i take made it articulate that i would not convert to hinduism, even though i respect information technology merely like Islam and that's all i want. For rahul i will do everything if my family hurts him i will be with Rahul and seek police help.

Shamim says: May 28, 2012, vii:27 am
Shamim here, We are going to apply for marriage nether special wedlock act this weekend. Thanks all for your support and guidance.

Shamim says: June 9, 2012 12:fifteen pm

Salam All,

By grace of Allah Im married to Rahul now, I cannot tell how happy I m. There is zilch that comes in between our honey, i pray and Rahul prays with me.

We are even so to decide were we live, I m still at my home and he is in his.
We have not yet told anyone nigh the union. I m waiting for a skillful moment to tell begetter and mom.

I see and then many discussions on this site on hindu and muslim matrimony, I but desire to say that some fundamentalists desire everyone to convert to Islam, but they dont know islam cant be forced, its in quran.

Only I accept seen my parents bias opinions on muslim women marriage vs muslim boys (they are given much freedom, which its against islam). What I see is lack of love for different religion & culture in their circumvolve, which is normally like beingness with just muslims, no diversity. I hope that changes and peace comes to all of us. -Shamim.

Shamim says: on September 24, 2012 at vii:34 am

Hi everybody,

Ever since I am married with Rahul, fortune appears to be changing dramatically for good. Both of us accept got a good job in a MNC and presently shall be going to Singapore. Another virtually heady event of my life, that I am meaning now. Vow what a pleasant surprise. My parents accept agreed, no problem now, reality has been accustomed. -Shamim.

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